Self-Care Gift Guide

My approach to buying gifts for those I care about has changed a lot over the past few years.

As an overthinker, you can bet that I overthink the shit out of gift buying. Which I guess isn’t entirely bad. I find myself pondering things like… will this better their life? Will it bring them happiness? Is this a gift that will make them a better person in some way? Will it bring a smile to their face each time they see it or use it?

Maybe it is just me, but I would rather spend my money on something personalized, that helps improve someone’s life, or helps to add joy, rather than waste my money on trinkets, trends, and fads.

This is why I wanted to create a different kind of gift guide for myself and for all of you. A guide to help inspire you to give the gift of self-care, self-improvement, and comfort to your loved ones and maybe even to yourself.


For the mind


As someone who loves to read I honestly can’t think of a better gift to receive than a good book. Have you ever been reading a book and think that a certain person you know would love it? I believe that books are the most thoughtful gifts.

Give one of your personal favorites to a friend to help share the magic you enjoyed while reading it yourself. Or for some inspiration check out some of my book recomendations of the past.


Never underestimate the power of words. Buy your friend or family member a pillow, wall decal or photo of an inspirational quote to add motivation and positivity to their life. Kind words are so uplifting and a great tool for manifesting.


A journal is a great gift for the blogger, writer or self-reflecting introvert on your shopping list. I personally love having notebooks and the more the marrier. Making a great stocking stuffer or gift to go with that beautiful book you picked out.

Year Daily and Monthly Planner

With bullet journals becoming increasingly popular and many people trying to get back to the basics of organization by ditching their phones for a paper planner, this is a fun gift for the super organized or busy person on your Christmas list. We all have that one friend right?

For the soul

Headspace – App

This app is filled with awesome meditations ranging in skill level, mood, and time frames.Making the perfect gift for anyone expressing a desire to start a meditation practice. Or someone who frequently mediates already.  Maybe even you?

You can check this app out for free and then purchase a year subscription for yourself or someone you care for.

Meditation Cushion

With meditation becoming more popular this is a great gift for the zen master in your life. This is a gift that is a need, a want, and a kind and thoughtful gift also. There are plenty of options on or

Meditation retreat

Whether you meditate or not a retreat is something everyone can benefit from. Check out your local events and find a retreat in your own area. Buy a weekend away for you and a friend, family member or partner and share a truly enriching experience together.


Am I the only person who listens to CDs anymore? If you or someone you know likes listening to tunes then buy them their favorite band’s new cd or an iTunes gift card.


More and more people are becoming interested in the world of natural healing, chakras and reading energies. Using crystals for the different healing properties they hold, has been a practice for thousands of years.

Getting back in touch with our ancient human roots and bringing the Earths powerful properties into our daily life is a beautiful habit to get into. Giving healing crystals as a gift is a beautiful way to show someone you care. If you have a friend with back problems then pick them up a Black Onyx crystal. Or a friend with frequent headaches could benefit from the healing properties of Amethyst.

This is an extremely thoughtful gift. Whether the recipient is a true believer or not there is no doubt they will appreciate the sentiment. And who knows you may open them up to new beliefs which is the gift of a lifetime.

For the Body

Yoga Classes

This is a great gift for anyone in your life who you know would like to try yoga. Purchase classes for you and a friend, partner or family member so you can enjoy a new experience together.

Light Therapy Lamp

Anyone feeling the effects of the long dark winter days or lives in the north will appreciate a sad light. This may be something that not many people would get for themselves but certainly can help improve quality of life. Try it out for a friend who works in a dark office or doesn’t get a lot of winter sun. Maybe even try it for yourself?

Yoga retreat

Just like a meditation retreat giving the gift of a yoga retreat is the perfect gift for your yogi friend. Or yourself! Take a weekend away to relax, take care of your body and learn all about this ancient practice!

Tea defuser and  Calming Tea

Tea is obviously the best gift you can give to a tea drinker, take it from me! I love tea and tea accessories. Head to your local tea shop and ask the experts for a de-stressing and calming tea. Great for any tea drinker or aspiring tea drinker.

For the Home

Fuzzy Blanket

I am obsessed with fuzzy blankets and whenever I give one as a gift I get the best kind of response. I mean who doesn’t love a new throw for the couch to cuddle up in during winter?

Incense or Sage and Burner

People have been burning sage as a way to cleanse and smudge negative energy for thousands of years. Lighting incense is a great way to get ready to meditate or relax when you are at home and also clear the room of negative energies that may be clinging to you or inside your home.

This isn’t spooky witchcraft, rather using sage and incense can be a very relaxing and beneficial addition to any home.


Being someone who personally loves the ambiance and the warm scents of seasonal candles I have to admit that receiving candles as a gift is a real treat. Having candles in your home can help create the cozy and relaxing atmosphere we all deserve to come home too.


Houseplants help purify the air in our homes, they liven up the look in any room and have even been proven to improve peoples moods. Imagine that?

Giving the gift of an easy to manage plant, like a succulent or fern is a great gift. Something for the owner to care for and watch grow, a gift that keeps on giving.

Personalized print

Personalized photos or prints are not only the best way to preserve happy memories but they also, in my opinion, make the very best gifts!

My best friend still has the photo I gave her 10 years ago of us at our grade 9 graduation. My dad loves the collage I made him of pictures of us on Christmas throughout the years. If there was a fire in my home you better believe the first thing I would grab would be my travel paintings that hang on all my walls.

With the new age of technology, many people are forgetting the importance of printing photos and filling their homes with them. This is beginning to change with more creative and affordable options for “art”. Including the canvas prints and murals available at

To use a site like is easy and allows you to create a truly memorable gift for that special someone on your list. Adding some personalized art to a home or office. Simply upload your own image and order either a canvas or a huge wall mural to be custom made and it will be shipped right to you.

My suggestion for making the most out of this gift is getting a custom print from the awesome folks at I was able to forever relive my happy travel memories of wandering the streets of Amsterdam by having a photo I took there transformed into a beautiful canvas.

The quality of the canvas and the frame are superior to anything I have seen in stores such as Costco or IKEA. It was quickly delivered and the assembly of the canvas to the frame was easy. With tools that are durable and sturdy. This is a product that will honestly last you a lifetime or can be passed down through the generations. A welcome sign as many similar products bought at retail stores is often cheaply made and easy to break.

The best news of all is the awesome folks at are offering my readers a %20 discount on purchases valid until January 31st, 2018. As a little gift to you all!

Transform an entire room by creating a mural accent wall or give the gift of happy memories with a beautiful personalized canvas!





  1. Stacie | 30th Nov 17

    I love ALL of these so much, but the one I recommend the most is a good planner. I live and die by my planner. It really does save your sanity.

    • stephaniewp | 30th Nov 17

      I feel ya! I love my planner too. Is it weird I can’t wait for the New Year so I can start all my new goals and plans?

  2. Colleen | 30th Nov 17

    These are such wonderful gift ideas for self care. I think it’s key that we take care of ourselves as well as we take care of others. I love the meditation pillow.

    • stephaniewp | 30th Nov 17

      I am hoping to get one for myself this year 🙂

  3. Gisele | 30th Nov 17

    These are all awesome gifts and I also think we need to treat ourselves! For years I’ve been trying to get my family to just have get-togethers and eat great food and just visit instead of dealing with presents. Everyone needs to take care of themselves.

    • stephaniewp | 30th Nov 17

      That is such a wonderful idea! Getting together and spending time with family is the best gift of all.

  4. Jennifer | 30th Nov 17

    I have been thinking of trying a medication camp. It’s something I’ve always wanted to do and now that my kids are grown, and I have more time for myself, i think I need to just do it.

  5. fashionbeyondforty | 30th Nov 17

    It’s like you crawled inside of my head and snagged my dream gift list! Love this! I will check out that Headspace app too!

    • stephaniewp | 1st Dec 17

      These are all my favorites 🙂 Headspace is wonderful. Let me know what you think!

  6. Ashley @ Wishes & Dishes | 1st Dec 17

    I love all of these ideas. YES to fuzzy blankets and candles, especially!

  7. Ricci | 1st Dec 17

    I love all of these gift ideas for self care. I think a journal is especially important because then you can write down all your thoughts and then keep it and look back on it and read it later!

  8. mimicutelips | 1st Dec 17

    This is a great gift idea, I would love a planner, a journal, and a inspirational quote on a pillow.

  9. roch | 1st Dec 17

    Books, yoga classes, and meditation are priceless gifts you can give to a person seeking peace and strength mentally and physically. Scented candles are a trendy thing nowadays.

  10. Ruth I. | 1st Dec 17

    I am on the hunt of a good planner. I feel like I should get the best but not expensive one. These gift suggestions are really good.

  11. Cyn Gagen | 1st Dec 17

    These are lovely ideas. I’ve begun, in recent years, treating myself to some self-care gifts during the holidays.

  12. Liz Mays | 1st Dec 17

    I love these! There are so many ways we can make some healthy improvements to our lives. Offering some of these things as gifts is a great idea.

  13. Up Run for Life Healthy Lifestyle Blog | 1st Dec 17

    I love a few of your gift ideas. I’m going to try and read more books this year. So I would enjoy a gift card so that I could get a few books in some of the series that I have been reading.

  14. Nichole Arnold | 2nd Dec 17

    A lovely gift idea. I feel that everyone has to focus on self care. Last year I didn’t give a hoot about my own life and I found I had to find the inner peace with my sadness and anger to find a way to give myself the self care I needed.

  15. marysa | 2nd Dec 17

    Love this gift guide! I’m one of those people who doesn’t put much into self-care. It should be a New Year’s Resolution to take better care of ourselves (and I don’t mean just working out!).

  16. Sonya K | 2nd Dec 17

    This such a great list of possible gifts to buy loved ones to encourage self-care. I would love to be gifted a retreat, yoga classes, a planner, and so many more of the items on your list.

  17. David Harris | 2nd Dec 17

    I appreciate this post, Steph. I never know what to ask for and I always rack my brain trying think of gifts to give.

    • stephaniewp | 4th Dec 17

      Me too! I have been looking for some similar gift guides because people keep asking me what I want. I couldn’t find anything I really liked so I decided to write one of my own. 🙂

  18. Kathy | 2nd Dec 17

    These are all such great ideas. I need a planner for myself as well as more books. I don’t get to read often because I’m always so busy. I could use a good book to read though.

  19. Michelle | 2nd Dec 17

    Great gift ideas. I love a good cozy blanket, even though I already have a ton.

  20. Ave Hla | 3rd Dec 17

    So many amazing gifts to choose from! I think it’s a great idea to ask “Will it bring them happiness?” when choosing gifts for your loved ones. I would love a yearly planner as a gift!

  21. sara lafountain | 3rd Dec 17

    I need to practice more of these self care ideas. I am going to start with a new planner and hopefully that will keep me organized.

    • stephaniewp | 4th Dec 17

      I love love love my planner. I bet you will love yours too once you get into the habit of using it 🙂

  22. Marissa Zurfluh | 3rd Dec 17

    Blankets and books are two of my favorites things in the world. They definitely relax me for my downtime.

  23. Carol Cassara | 3rd Dec 17

    We often forget about taking care of ourselves during the holidays and it’s really important that we do! I think these are beautiful choices for self care gifts! It’s also something that I would give moms!

    • stephaniewp | 4th Dec 17

      Yes for sure! Moms need self-care perhaps the most!

  24. AmyH | 3rd Dec 17

    I love getting – and giving – fuzzy blankets for Christmas. There is just something about curling yourself up in a cozy warm blanket during the winter…

    • stephaniewp | 4th Dec 17

      Oh I know! I hope I get a new one this year 🙂 Although I do not need it haha

  25. Ricci | 3rd Dec 17

    Books and planners and journals oh my!! Those are some of my very favorite kinds of gifts and ones that will definitely get used around my house on the daily!

  26. Victoria Heckstall | 3rd Dec 17

    That gift guide is very interesting. Those are such useful gifts for self care.

  27. You Can Always Start Now | 3rd Dec 17

    Great ideas thank you.

  28. Lorna | 3rd Dec 17

    I’m sorry, I stopped reading at the purple highlighters, ha! Because I’m obsessed.

  29. chewoutloud | 4th Dec 17

    These are terrific ideas! I love the journals, reading books, candles, and yoga ideas! Perfect for wintry days

    • stephaniewp | 4th Dec 17

      I know! It certainly helps make the thought of winter hibernation more appealing.

  30. Sadhna Shanker | 4th Dec 17

    Thanks for the wonderful gift ideas. The suggestions are positive and bright.

  31. Elizabeth O | 8th Dec 17

    These are such a great ideas and lots of wonderful gift ideas for Christmas. This planner and tea mug is so cute. Perfect for my workplace.

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